| Location | Durham |
| Age | 39 years |
| Cause of Death | Brain Haemorrage |
| Date of Birth | 06/12/1964 |
| Date of Death | 16/05/2004 |
| Visitors | 2,212 since 13/12/2008 |
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Sandra came into the world prematurely, weighing the same as a bag of sugar and also left us prematurely ...
Sandra was the 2nd child of Jean and Dave, she was mine and our davids big sis..
Sandra had gone to the doctors a few weeks before she died complaining of headaches and was told it was neuralgia..
One friday night she had a really bad headache and couldnt sleep, so she lay on the couch with her youngest jasmin who was 1 at the time, the next morning her daughter jade tried to wake her up but she didnt wake up...Sandra was rushed to hospital and had a brain scan..the doctors said there was nothing they could do.. she had a Subaracnoid Hemorrhage(berry aneurysm) and they said she was brain dead...we all gathered round her bed as the vicar said a pray for her, a tear trickled down our sandras face,why this was i dont know..her life support was switched off on sunday afternoon...my mam and i stayed with her and each held her hand till her heart stopped beating....
In the last 2 year both my mam and brother have had brain surgery for aneurysms..all siblings were advised to have brain scans..the doctors say its genetic...so if you have loved one who has passed away with the same please consult your doctor and get checked out.....
Sandra was 39 yrs old when she died in May...it would have been her 40th birthday in Dec of that year, she was planning to have a big birthday party but unfortunately never got to have it....
For our Sister Sandra.
Daughter to Jean and Dave.
Mam to Stevan, Jade, Nathan, Jasmin.
Sister to David, Christine, Jacqui.
If tears could build a stairway
and thoughts a memory lane
I'd walk right up to heaven
and bring you home again
No Farewell words were spoken
No time to say good-bye
You were gone before I knew it
And only God knows why.
My heart's still active in sadness
And secret tears still flow
What it meant to lose you
No one can ever know.
But now at peace with hurt no more
i remember all the happy times
Life still has much in store.
Since you'll never be forgotten
I pledge to you today
A hallowed place within my heart
Is where you'll always stay.
thinkin of you always xxx
Thinking of you sandra but that is nothing new, I thought about you yesterday, the day before that too. I'll think about you tomorrow and as the days come and go, I'll think about you forever because I Love You So. xxxx
special sister
Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there, I do not sleep
I am a 1,000 winds that blow
I am the diamond glints on snow
I am the sun on ripened grain
I am the gentle autumn rain
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled light
I am the soft star that shines at night
Do not stand at my grave and cry
I am not there; I did not die.
never forgotten
You left us so suddenly,
your thoughts unknown,
You left us memories,
we are proud to own.
with love
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I LEAVE THESE FOOTPRINTS TO SHOW I'VE BEEN.
SWEET DREAMS xxxxx
A gentle wind blew across the land
It reached out to take your hand
Your wings appeared and you drifted away
I really wished that you would stay
But maybe its better for you up there
I just hope you know how much we care
Time and time did we sit and cry
You were gone without a goodbye
I kept thinking why did you go?
The other angels needed you that I know
Someone knew you were the best
Of Earth And Heaven and all the rest
A message from all that shared your love
We know your safe in heaven above
I remember the times that we both had
The memories are happy but sometimes sad
I lost my earth angel which was you
But god gained one and that is true
Ill always looks at the stars at night
And know you’re the one that shines so bright
Your memory will stay with me forever
Ill not forget you and I mean never
I miss you
Sometimes when I see your picture I cry but you’re worth every tear
There will always be a space in my heart that’s filled with memories of you and they will never leave me
~xXx~ I Love You ~xXx~
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MISS YOU EVERY DAY.XxXxX
No words I write can ever say
how much I miss you everyday.
As time goes by, the loneliness grows,
How I miss you, nobody knows.
I think of you in silence,
I often speak your name.
But all I have are memories,
And a photo in a frame.
No one sees me weep.
But the love I have for you,
Is in my heart, and mine to keep.
I have never stopped loving you
and I know I never will.
Deep inside my heart,
You are with me still.
Heartaches, this world are many,
But mine is worse than any.
My heart still aches, as I whisper low,
"I need you... and miss you so."
The things we feel so deeply
are often the hardest things to say.
But I just can't keep quiet anymore,
So I'll tell you any ways.
There is a place within my heart
that no one else can fill.
I love you and I always will!
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